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REAL POWER: MAXING OUT ON GOD'S LOVE

DECISION CHECK

The fourth letter in the checklist is D which stands for decisions.  Each day you have to make important decisions, and this check focuses on the criteria you use to make those decisions.

The decision check is simple.  You need to answer only one question.  When you make your decisions today, are you going to do the legal thing, the right thing, or the loving thing?

Most people always do the legal thing, usually do the right thing, and sometimes do the loving thing.  People who are alive spiritually know that this is doing things backwards and that you should always do the loving thing.  Usually the loving thing is both legal and right, but the reverse often is not true.

If you choose to do the legal thing, you will be walking on thin spiritual ice.   A crafty lawyer can figure out a way for you to do almost anything you want, irrespective of whether it’s right or wrong, and the question of whether it’s loving is never considered.  If your sole criteria for making decisions is whether it’s within the letter of the law, right and wrong become irrelevant, and you quickly get into spiritual difficulty.  Your spirit will wither and die as lawyers show you how to walk the broad path that leads to spiritual destruction.  Remember, lawyers are not spiritual advisors, and if you follow their advice, you will do it at great peril to your spirit.

If you choose to do the right thing, you still are treading on dangerous ground.  Doing what you believe to be the right thing can lead you onto the slippery slope of self-righteousness.  Saying you are going to do the right thing has a good sound and feel.  What could possibly be wrong with always doing the right thing?

Problems arise because people have a different understanding of right and wrong.  It’s a small world with a multitude of competing belief systems.  People, who believe they are right, kill each other every day.  It’s an eye for an eye and a tooth for a tooth world out there, and doing the right thing allows you to do horrible things to people who have different politics and religion than you.  Suicide bombers believe they are doing the right thing.  Genocide and wars continue for hundreds of years because people believe their cause is righteous.

Sooner or later, people who believe they are right fall into the trap of self-righteousness.  This approach divides the world into two groups of people.  Everyone who agrees with you is right, and everyone who disagrees is wrong.  Making decisions based on the criteria of whether they are right or wrong is riddled with problems.

If you choose to do the loving thing, you will navigate effortlessly through the moral universe.  People who have a personal relationship with God based on love know that doing the loving thing is the way they are meant to live.  Love is the source of their life and is the power of God at work in the world.  They want to be a part of God’s work.  They believe that God’s heart of love is their heart, and God’s arms of love are their arms.  God has filled their heart with his love, and they want to pass it on to other people by doing the loving thing.

Choosing to do the loving thing is usually straightforward.  You don’t need lawyers to parse the truth for you and tell you about love.  If you can’t figure out what is the loving thing, you can ask a five year old child, and he or she will easily tell you.

If you always do the loving thing, your spirit will grow strong in the power of God’s love, and your mistakes will be few and far between. If you do the legal thing, few people will criticize you.  If you do the right thing, most people will applaud.  If you do the loving thing, God will say well done, and the world will be a better place because you were here.

ELIMINATE NEGATIVE THOUGHTS

The fifth letter in the checklist is E which stands for eliminating negativity from your heart and mind.  Most people have a hard time eliminating negative thoughts.  The reason it’s so difficult is because the power of focus works against you when you think negative thoughts.  A negative focus causes negative thoughts to grow more powerful and to proliferate.  Unless you change your focus, you lose the battle for a positive mind.

You can’t afford to start the morning with a mind full of negative thoughts.  They are the kiss of death for a positive day.  If you wake up with negative thoughts blowing through your mind, you need to take immediate action to eliminate them.

Negative thoughts will not go away by themselves.  Only positive action will make them leave.  Arguing with them will not help; it will just make them grow stronger.  The only way to beat them is to shift your focus in a new direction, and you can do this many different ways.  Physical exercise almost always helps dispel negative thoughts.  Even without exercise, there are others things you can do to push your mind in a positive direction.  You can flip through your Power Graphics to give your mind a positive boost.

The most sensible thing to do is to immediately pull out all stops and shift your focus to the most powerful force in the universe, God’s love.  When you shift your focus to God’s love, negative thinking heads for the emergency exit, and your mind moves in a positive direction.  God’s love is real power, and negative thoughts can never survive in a heart full of his love. 

Repeat the following positive affirmation to decapitate the negative thoughts that poke their ugly heads into your heart and mind:

“God is love and works by love.  The power and presence of God in my life is love.  God loves and accepts me the way I am, but He loves me too much to let me stay that way.  He loves me from the top of my head to the tip of my toes, and it doesn’t get any better than that.  His love pushes negative thoughts from my mind and gives me a clean mind and a pure heart.  There is no limit to how good my life can become when my heart and mind are full of God’s love.  I will max out on God’s love.”

This affirmation radically shifts your focus in a positive direction.  After eliminating negative thoughts, you are ready to move on to the forgiveness check.

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