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REAL POWER: MAXING OUT ON GOD'S LOVE

DON'T EVEN THINK ABOUT IT

We were driving south on a nine-day trip into the vast sands of the Empty Quarter of the Arabian Peninsula.  The Empty Quarter is one of the largest sand desert in the world.  We were about two hundred kilometers off-road into the desert when we met several trucks heading north. 

We are always a bit nervous when we meet strangers in deep desert because we never know if they might be well-armed smugglers from Yemen.  Everyone you meet in the Empty Quarter carries weapons.  Even the bedouins travel with Kalishnakov automatic weapons.  When you look in their pick-up trucks, you see their weapons laying on the floor ready for action.

Our unexpected rendezvous turned out to be nothing more than a pleasant encounter with bedouins on a hunting expedition.  The back of their truck contained a cargo of falcons and saluki dogs.

They stopped their trucks, and we stopped ours. We spent an hour talking with them, and they showed us their Saker falcons.  They put a big leather glove on our arm and let us hold their birds of prey.  Then they took the hood off the falcon’s head and released it.  It amazed us the bird didn’t fly away.  It circled and came back to its perch, content to have the hood placed back over its head.

Falcons are carnivorous hunters that feed on other species of birds.  In order to capture a falcon, bedouins tie a long string to the leg of a pigeon.  They attach the string to a heavy rock so the pigeon can’t fly away.  Once they locate a wild falcon, they release the pigeon into the air.  The falcon swiftly attacks and kills the pigeon.  The bedouins drive the falcon off its kill before it can devour the pigeon.

Downwind of the kill, the bedouins dig a hole in the ground, and they hide in the hole.  They cover the hole and themselves with foliage so they can no longer be seen by the falcon.  In their hands they hold a string attached to the legs of the dead pigeon. 

When the falcon no longer sees the men on the ground, it swoops down and starts eating the pigeon.  The bedouin pulls on the string and slowly drags the pigeon’s body over to the hole in which he is hiding.  The falcon walks along eating the pigeon carcass until it’s next to the hole.  The bedouin suddenly reaches out and grabs the falcon by its legs to capture it.  He then puts a hood over the falcon’s head to make it become quiet.  He spends the next several weeks taming and training the bird.

During the training period, the bedouin never separates himself from the falcon.  He carries it with him on his wrist and feeds it there as well.  The falcon sleeps on a perch next to the bedouin’s head.  He is always stroking it, speaking to it, and hooding and unhooding it.  A skillful handler can train some falcons in as short as a week, but most require several weeks to be able to hunt with the bird without it flying away and not returning.

When a bedouin hunts with a falcon, he releases it, and follows the falcon to its kill.  He recovers the falcon at the kill, places it back on its perch, and puts the hood back over its head.

It’s hard to believe you can take a wild bird of prey, and within a short period radically alter its behavior so it doesn’t fly away when released.  A few weeks previously, the falcon was free to soar in the sky and took care of its own needs without anyone’s help.  It was a fierce bird of prey, but now it sits contentedly in total darkness with a hood over its head.

Tamed falcons remind me of people.  When people are born, God gives them the heart and wings of an eagle.  Soaring is their domain.  Nevertheless, by the time they are twenty years old, they are captured, tamed, and trained for life.  Their days of flying like an eagle are over.

I have known hundreds of people who flew like an eagle when they were young, but now they are captured, tamed, and trained.  They sit on their perch with a hood over their head, and have forgotten they are eagles.  They are trapped in alcoholism, drug abuse, promiscuity, abusive relationships, destructive addictions, and mediocrity.

You can learn a great deal from studying the trapping, taming, and training of falcons.

1.       First, a falcon is lured into the trap using bait that exploits the falcon’s instinctive behavior.

2.       Second, a falcon is lured into the trap one step at a time, not realizing each step takes it closer to captivity.

3.       Third, the falcon doesn’t realize the trap is there until it’s too late.

4.       Fourth, the falcon quickly forgets it could soar in freedom once a hood is over its head and it’s being fed by hand.

5.       Fifth, the falcon becomes so accustomed to captivity that even when given freedom of flight, it returns to its perch to remain in captivity.  Its memory of freedom to roam the skies is gone.  It has forgotten what it’s like to soar as the master of its fate and captain of its soul.  It doesn’t remember what it was like to be a falcon that was free.

THE LURE OF INSTINCTIVE BEHAVIOR

People have a strong need to look and act like other people.  That’s why fashion designers are able to market brand name clothes and shoes at outrageous prices.  You can get a pair of generic basketball shoes for a bargain price on sale, or you can buy shoes marketed by an NBA superstar for ten times as much.  You pay ten times the price to have the status of wearing overpriced shoes that make you a member of an elite group.

Overpaying for basketball shoes by a factor of five or ten times will not ruin your life; it will only empty your pocketbook.  Unfortunately, the need for acceptance extends far beyond the type of shoes you wear. 

If your friends drink alcohol and use drugs, you feel pressure to do the same.  If they get drunk on the weekend, you will be expected to follow suit.  If they smoke marijuana, you have to do it too.  If they snort cocaine, it won’t be long before you feel the pressure to join in the “fun”.  If they take uppers or downers, soon you will be doing the same.  If your friends engage in promiscuous behavior in which their hormones are more powerful than their brains, it won’t be long before you turn off your brain and fall into the same trap.

It’s normal to want to be part of the group and to have hormones that affect your behavior.  Nevertheless, you have to be careful to not allow instinctive drives to lure you into a trap from which there is no easy escape.

The best way to avoid this trap is to immediately turn your back on and walk away from temptations that can ruin your life.  If you let peer pressure and hormones dominate your life, in a short time you will find yourself trapped in behaviors that are bad for you and morally wrong as well.

YOU ARE LURED INTO THE TRAP ONE STEP AT A TIME

You don’t need a million dollars and a degree in engineering from MIT to design a perfect trap guaranteed to ruin lives.  Most traps are exceedingly simple to create and deploy. A simple trap works best.  All you need to do is entice the victim into the trap a millimeter at a time.  It will take time to capture him, but time isn’t important when you are in the business of destroying lives.  You have all the time you need to do the dastardly deed.

When I was in medical school, I learned that one out of eight people who drink alcohol develop an addiction to it and become an alcoholic.  I never met a person who became an alcoholic after taking only one drink.  It took thousands of drinks to make it happen.  While it’s true the first drink started the problem, it was those thousands of other drinks that moved them step by step toward alcoholism.  They became an alcoholic in a series of imperceptibly small steps.  When they finally are a confirmed alcoholic, they deny they have a problem.  They have a hood on their head that makes them deny their addiction.

You will never become addicted to marijuana if you never light up a marijuana cigarette.  You will never become addicted to cocaine and other narcotics if you never start using them.  Chemical addictions happen one day at a time in imperceptibly small steps until you are trapped.

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REAL POWER - MAXING OUT ON GOD'S LOVE
David J. Abbott M.D.


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