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REAL POWER: MAXING OUT ON GOD'S LOVE

PRAYER IS THE ULTIMATE REALITY CHECK

Prayer is the ultimate reality check.  You can fool some of the people some of the time.  You can fool yourself some of the time.  You can never fool God.

Prayer is a place you go to find out how you are doing.  If you are getting into trouble, you can probably get straightened out during prayer.

You bring many problems on yourself.  So many mistakes seem like a good idea at the time.  A scripture says, “There is a way that seems right unto a man, but the ends thereof are death.”  Those words summarize the disasters of countless lives.  When your hormones are talking, there is a way that seems right unto a man.  When you are consumed by greed, there is a way that seems right unto a man.  When you want something that you cannot afford, there is a way that seems right unto a man.  The way that seems right gets you into trouble again and again.  You need a periodic reality check if you want to avoid the way that seems right, and prayer is that reality check.

Prayer clarifies your vision.  Prayer isn’t asking for a miracle or trying to make your problems disappear.  You pray to discover the way things actually are so you don’t fool yourself and follow the way that seems right, but ends in disaster.

ALIGN YOURSELF WITH GOD’S PLAN FOR YOUR LIFE

Go out in a boat and toss a line to shore.  After the line is made fast to shore, pull on the line.  When you do this, you don’t pull the shore to the boat.  Instead, you pull the boat to shore.  That’s the way it works with prayer.  When you pull on the rope connecting you to God, you don’t pull God to your way of doing things.  You pull yourself to his way of doing things.  Prayer is the way you align yourself with God’s program for your life.

Most of the time when people pray, they ask God to help them escape from trouble or to get something they want.  While there is nothing wrong with praying when you are in difficulty, you would be better off if you would pray in a manner that would prevent you from getting into trouble in the first place.  Prayer keeps you from taking the way that seems right, but that ends in misery.

PRAYER DOES NOT CHANGE GOD – PRAYER CHANGES YOU

Once you are in trouble, prayer won’t change God.  However, prayer will change you.  When you stop trying to make God solve your problems, and get on with the business of finding out what He wants you to do about them, you have discovered what prayer is all about.  The purpose of prayer isn’t to change God.  It’s to change you.  You need to pray until you have done an ultimate reality check and found out where you are and where you need to be going.

You don’t need to get God aligned with your program for life.  You need to get yourself aligned with his program.  Spirituality is a personal matter.  God has an agenda and direction for your life that no one else knows.  Nobody can talk to God and find out his plan for you.  That is your unique privilege, and it forms the core of your life’s adventure with God.

Some people carry an enormous burden of false beliefs about themselves and about their unlimited potential for excellence.  They continually focus on their limitations rather than on their possibilities.

Prayer helps them detect and eliminate harmful false beliefs.  They step higher and run faster without those burdens.  They discover the truth that sets them free.

GOING ONE ON ONE WITH GOD

Prayer must have been supremely important to Jesus, because he spent so many nights in prayer.  The record shows that Jesus went into the desert to pray.  He didn’t spend his nights praying in the synagogue, nor did he hold long public prayer meetings.  Most of his public prayers are exceedingly short and to the point.  Most of his private prayer sessions are long, and the subjects of the prayer are unknown.

Jesus would go into the desert and spend the night in prayer.  Although we don’t know if he prayed for the entire night, we do know that when he came out of the desert he was full of wisdom and power.

The desert is a superb location for prayer.  There is no noise from the streets and no distractions from the activities of daily life.  No one is around to observe what you are doing, so there is no affectation or role playing.  You don’t need to impress anyone with how well you pray or how spiritual you are.  You don’t need to adopt any special vocabulary.

The desert is an area of unadorned natural beauty without distractions.  It’s a place where you stop trying to fool others and yourself.  You are one on one with God, and you have an ultimate reality check.

The silence in the desert lends itself to meditation and communion with God.  For people who live in developed countries, it’s difficult to find a location without distractions where you can do your ultimate reality check.  When you are in your house in familiar surroundings, your mind easily turns in the direction of everything that you have in your life.  All of your accumulations and accomplishments are within an easy arm’s reach.  When so many things surrounding you, you may start asking God for more things rather than for clear vision and spiritual direction.  It’s easy for your prayers to degenerate into a wish list which only clouds your vision further.

The stark austerity of the desert separates you from all of the things that complicate your life.  You don’t need more things.  You need to clarify your vision and find out where your beliefs and actions are taking you.  You need an ultimate reality check.

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